
K.A. Coleman
Wandering Thoughts
"We're All Mad Here"
~Lewis Carroll

Things I Wish I Had Known #19: Being an Ally Means Taking a Stance
I considered asking someone who was a member of the LGBTQ+ community to write this post because they have first hand experiences that I...

Things I Wish I Had Known #18: Ownership is Important.
There are so many things about myself that I feel like I can't own. I can't own the fact that I'm aware that I'm smart, pretty, and funny...

Things I Wish I Had Known #17: The Weight of Grief
If you had asked me in my late 20s if I had ever had my heartbroken, I would have said yes. By that age, I thought I had learned loss. ...

Things I Wish I Had Known #16: Breaking Through Imposter Syndrome
Breaking Through Imposter Syndrome I recognize that what I’m about to say will sound illogical, but it’s true nonetheless. For a very...

Things I Wish I Had Known #15: Silence or Apathy Isn't the Answer.
In future history textbooks, COVID-19 will certainly be covered. While I doubt I could ever forget the pandemic if I tried, 2020-2021...

Things I Wish I Had Known #14: Don't Forget to Live
Survivor’s guilt. I never question God, but I often wonder why I have been spared the last 35 years after I lost my father and brother...

Things I Wish I Had Known #13: You Can and You Will
From my experiences, three things in life are guaranteed: taxes, death, and people telling you what you are or aren’t capable of doing. I...

Things I Wish I Had Known #12: A Woman's Best Friend is a Good Defense
When I was 21, I started my July 4th like I stared most other days. I went to a friend’s house to play badminton in the pool. Until my...

Things I Wish I Had Known #11: It's Hard Being A Young Woman
Note: I have successfully driven golf balls wearing everything from sandals to stilettos. To quote a Bob Thaves comic, "Sure he [Fred...

Who Gave the Best Advice?
When I saw people arguing over which generation was the weakest on Twitter, I actually laughed because I thought it was a joke. It was...

Advice from the Boomers (1946-1964)
"If you expect to be disappointed you’ll never be disappointed.” Alex "'All we are saying is give peace a chance.' John Lennon" David...

Advice from Gen X (1965-1980)
"Strongly resist the urge to compare your life to others. We're all running our own unique race and facing different obstacles along the...

Advice from the Millennials (1981-1996)
"Look at everything that happens in your life as the best possible thing to happen to you; everything is aligned and happening for a...

Advice from the Zoomers (1997 to 2009)
"Keep fishing - eventually one will bite." Aidan "Don't take everything so seriously." Anna "Always try your best and don't give up." ...

Advice from Gen A (2010 to Present)
Since there are eleven year olds and three year olds in the mix here, the advice certainly has some range to it. I asked their parents...

Things I Wish I Had Known #10: I'm Listening?
This essay may be the first time I've written something non-technical and non-legal since I finished my master’s degree in 2014. I've...

Letter #10: The Silent Screams of Heartbreak
The sound of heartbreak is the pain screaming in my chest emptiness and fear swirling from my stomach to my head The sounds of heartbreak...

Things I Wish I Had Known #9: The Present
If you search the internet for quotes about finding happiness and joy in the present, you will find pages upon pages of content. Whether...

Letter 9: Joss, Your Time Is Up
Dear Joss Whedon, I want to be clear on one thing. I stand with every victim you harassed, made to feel less than, or cut down for your...
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